For a blissful and stable relationship, here are 15 important things your partner always needs to hear from you.
1. I love you.
Everyone needs to feel deeply loved. So besides actions, always tell your partner that you love him, and mean it. Expressing your love often is a great thing for your relationship. Also, let him know what you love about him. For example, tell him “I love it when you remember the little things,” and “I love how you’re so charismatic.”
2. I miss you.
They say the unexpected moment is always sweeter. You’re always used to telling your partner that you miss him, but when you say it unexpectedly, he’ll cherish it more. If you’re on the phone with him, tell him “I wish you were here.” Letting your partner know that, will give him a sense of joy and affection. Also, a big squishy hug when you see him at the end of a long day will mean a lot.
Two little words that have a huge impact! If you did him wrong, messed up or made him angry, then you just have to apologize, and meant it. Be considerate of his feelings and respect him enough to say you’re sorry. He’ll appreciate it, a lot.
4. You’re right.
No one’s perfect and no one’s always right, right? If you had a discussion and you were so uptight about his views, which turned out to be right, tell him so. This shows that you’re in a healthy relationship, where you don’t always have to be right. Learn to be humble.
5. How can I help you?
This simple question can help your significant other open up to you. If he’s having a bad day, sometimes “everything will be okay” won’t be enough. Try to know if there’s any way you can help him, but if he doesn’t want any caring acts, then give him a time of peaceful silence until he feels better.
6. How was your day?
Every couple should discuss what happened throughout their days. It could be pillow talk or a long meaningful phone call at the end of the day, but it’s all about really listening to each other, and always feeling connected.
7. I’m here for you.
All people love to feel reassured and want to know that they’re not growing apart from their partners. That’s why a simple “I’m here for you” can mean so much.
8. “Please” and “Thank You”
As kids, we’ve learnt that “Please” and “Thank You” are magic words, and guess what, they still are! Consideration is super important in any relationship, so when you ask him for things, make sure it’s the right timing!
9. We’re in this together.
A good and healthy relationship is when both partners feel like one team! Every couple goes through highs and lows, and he has to know that you’re in it because it’s so worth it.
10. You have my full support.
Always let your partner know that your’e his no.1 fan, and be his very own cheerleader. Make him feel that you’re on his side and always be supportive.