I was in a relationship since 12th of January, 2012 to 1st of September 2016.
We started our wedding planning March last year (2017), we’ve paid for our engagement clothes and my wedding gown. I was with my ex’s family from August 5th to August 24th.
On September 1st, my Fiancé called me to tell me that his Dad said we should suspend our wedding plans. I asked him what could have been the cause and his response was that his Dad consulted celestial prophet and he was told that if his marry me he would die untimely. I mean, the father was told by the prophet he consulted that if his son married me he would die untimely.
That was how problems started.
To cut the story short, the relationship broke up and the boy is married to another lady. They wedded on the same day we fixed for our wedding.
Why am so bothered is that our relationship was almost 3years before he traveled to U.S and it was almost 5years before the break up. I didn’t date any other throughout our relationship both when he was in Nigeria and after he traveled abroad
I’m now lonely, no body to share my feelings with, I’m hating myself and regretting my faithfulness to him
A lot of people advised me to have someone else in case he messed up but I didn’t listen to them. Now I have no one to run to, all my friends are married I’m the only one single of my friends. None of my friends has my time now because they are busy with their own life and family.