When a man has found himself, his partner can actually predict how he’ll respond to just about every situation, and that’s a good thing. You don’t want to date a guy who has no idea what he would do if he were offered a million dollars to get a vasectomy—see my point? You can’t plan a life with a man who is still finding himself, so know how to spot the ones who are.
He’s very active on social media
People who are very active on social media still need outside input on most of what they do, think, wear and say. Social media is great for that! But you don’t want to be with that guy.
There will be some backlash on this but…selfies are just more acceptable among women than they are for (straight) men. Before getting up and arms about this, just think about how relationships have ended with men who posted lots of selfies. Uh-uh. I’m guessing they cheated, or ran off to Europe in the middle of the night because their spirit animal told them to.
They still talk about exes
Everybody talks a little bit about exes, but people who spend a lot of time analyzing past relationships are still finding themselves. When a man knows himself, he sees very clearly why relationships ended. There’s nothing to talk about.
They have odd friends
They have friends with questionable values. That’s because they’re still questioning their own values.