The most painful thing a woman can go through is loving a man who is emotionally unavailable. It could break her in pieces, here is how you know you are in love with an emotionally unavailable man;
What he says: Often an emotionally unavailable man will say, “I’m just not good at having a relationship,” or “I don’t think I’m ready for marriage.” Believe him! In this case, he is not lying. But don’t fall into his trap: there is something terribly seductive about trying to be “the one” who turns him around. Don’t try. Accept his negative pronouncements. This may be the first and only time you’ll hear him speak the truth (as they know it).
Watch Out for his Character. An Emotionally unavailable man tend to be a perfectionists, always looking for the fatal flaw or character defect that gives him permission to exit a relationship and move on. In reality, he is debilitated by his own self-criticism and fear of being rejected. He is so frightened of intimacy that eventually he’ll find an excuse for leaving a relationship. (The booby prize is thinking that you’ll ever be good enough to meet his impossible standards.)
If you notice that the person you’re dating exhibits several of these signs, don’t waste time trying to convert or change them. Just accept that they are not a fit for you. This will take discipline on your part, but it will save you from great emotional disappointment and allow you to be free to meet someone for a healthier relationship that has a future. The choice is yours.
Always remember, Value your emotions they are important.