Loving yourself is loving what you are, who you are, what you do and how you do what you do.
Believe it or not loving yourself keeps you from a lot of troubles and problems, it makes your life easier.
Loving oneself is pretty much difficult, most of us are prone to self doubt and are thin skinned when it comes to criticism.
Here are three things you need to start doing so you can love yourself better.
- Start making the changes you know you need to make. – Just because something made you happy in the past doesn’t mean you have to keep it forever. If you want to see changes in your life today, you’ll have to do things that you’ve never done before. Different input = different output. Move away from the things that drain you and move toward the thoughts and activities that empower and fulfill you.
- Show gratitude for who you are and what you have right now.– No, you won’t always get what you want. And no, you won’t always be exactly where you want to be. But remember this: There are lots of people who will never have what you have right now. So use pain, frustration and inconvenience to motivate you rather than annoy you. You are in control of the way you look at life.
- Believe in your abilities. – All things are possible! The key is to identify what you want, claim it as part of who you are, and believe that you are worthy to have it.
And if you cannot love your own self, how do you expect someone else to love you? hell the world can’t love you either, every man for himself, its imperative that you own your own happiness.